Thursday, October 30, 2014

Why am I Doing This?

Well, here I go. Into the world of the blog. I am not really sure if anyone will care too much about what I may have to offer. I truly just need an outlet for my overflowing mind. I am sure there are many people out there who can relate to my plight. You know, the one where you rush around all day doing all the little things just praying for two minutes to sit and do something brainless? The one where your prayers are given the answer you longed for and those precious minutes are granted but your brain does not cooperate? Yeah, that would be me. In those rare moments are when my brain decides to kick it into high gear, dive into the water, and ponder all the stuff of life. To be clear, my brain is a fan of the whole pool not just the shallow end. I decided that I might as well do something constructive with my thoughts and start typing. Even if I am the only one who benefits from the brain purge at least someone will. 

My first goal, as I mentioned, is an outlet for my own thoughts on everything from my latest Bible study to that cute thing my kid did. Everything I type will be from a Christian worldview, even the cute thing my kid did. I strive for Christ to be in every part of my life. 

My second goal is to speak kindly but firmly and listen well if anyone else does care to read what I have to say and has something to add or ask.

Proverbs 25:11-13
 “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in a setting of silver. Like a gold ring or an ornament of gold is a wise reprover to a listening ear. Like the cold of snow in the time of harvest is a faithful messenger to those who send him; he refreshes the soul of his masters.”

What a beautiful picture this paints for us of how wonderful it is to speak appropriately! Just think about what this proverb says for a moment. Words that are spoken “fitly” or appropriately are equivalent to gold and silver. Not only are they valuable but I can also see that they are rare. I don’t know about you but I do not stumble upon golden apples nestled in beds of silver every day. Words spoken well can, sadly, be just as rare as that.

It also says that a wise reprover is like fine jewelry. When we hear the word reprove it usually conjures up images of scolding and yes that is what it means but, the actual definition says that it means to do so “gently or with a kindly intent.” So this passage says it is right to correct someone with thoughtful and wise speech. 

Don’t leave out the listener though. It isn't always about the one speaking. This passage says you must have someone with a “listening ear” or someone willing to hear what is said. So “speaking” properly involves not only speaking but hearing, or in this case reading. 


The last part of this passage tells us that a faithful messenger is refreshing to the soul of his masters. It says that someone who delivers a message that has been given to them by their masters and does so faithfully has done well. This implies two things: 1. The messenger listened to the masters message and carried it with them. 2. The messenger delivered the masters message correctly to the one it was intended to be delivered to. Do we see any parallels to the Christian here? I hope so.

I think this sums it up for now. I am not sure how often I will be able to post my ponderings but I look forward to having the ability to express those thoughts and, if you decide to join me as I clean out my brain, sharing them with you.

7 comments:

  1. Very well done. So proud of you. Love Mom.

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  2. Somewhere along the way, I learned "right" communication is trifold: it is finding the right words, at the right time, and delivered with the right heart. More often than not, I struggle with finding that right heart - especially when it comes to reproving another. Rather than finding validation in doing the right thing, I think I tend to find validation in being right. While I would like to think this is because (as an adult) getting a gold star in class is now a rarity, I know this shortcoming is my own selfish nature. Thank you for your insight, Amanda, and the encouragement I know I will draw from it. Keep up the brain dumps!

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    1. Overdue reply to you my friend. I miss being able to have these "brain dumps" in person ;)

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  3. Well written and fun to read! I look forward to many more posts!!

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  4. Overdue reply to each of you. Thank you very much. :)

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  5. Amanda, I have been reading your blogs, and I am so very proud of you. You express beautifully the things that are also in my heart. When I was growing up, we moved around quite a lot because of my father's work promotions in the insurance business; therefore, I learned early on of the importance of the new Christians who came into my life. It was always difficult to leave my friends, but I met many more friends who also enriched my life. The Church was the most integral part of each move that we made. Please keep up the good works in which you are involved and stay the Christian wife and mother that you are and that the Lord wants you to be. Your words are inspirational! Love, Dean Short

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    1. Thank you Mrs. Dean. I appreciate your encouragement.

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